Lothie

Ace of Hearts: Why bigotry against otherkin people, multiple systems, and other groups pisses me off.

Wed, 06 Jul 2011 15:31:16 -0400

Ace of Hearts: Why bigotry against otherkin people, multiple systems, and other groups pisses me off.:

Quite honestly, otherkin identities make no sense to me. I have no idea how a person comes to realize they identify as a vampire, werewolf, or any other identity. I have no idea what it’s like to identify as any of those. Same goes for multiple systems (or multiples… I’ve been bitched out for…

fuck yeah social thought: How to be an ally to sex workers

Sun, 03 Jul 2011 12:59:02 -0400

fuck yeah social thought: How to be an ally to sex workers:

fuckyeahsocialthought:

-Today I had a very deep conversation with my close friend and partner about sex workers, their mental health, and their rights. They brought up many points that inspired me to think further about some issues, and so I decided to do some research when I got home. Unfortunately, sex work advocacy…

Geekerella Alert: Caesar's Kittens

Thu, 23 Jun 2011 18:33:54 -0400

Geekerella Alert: Caesar's Kittens:

geekerella:

There are many things in life that don’t go as planned. One is anything to do with animals. The other is illness. Put the two together and you have all the ingredients for a panic attack, an ulcer and an inability to envision anything but the worst.

I have five tiny kittens living in my…

mr zeitgeist: The Truth About Kinky Women

Thu, 17 Mar 2011 17:12:45 -0400

mr zeitgeist: The Truth About Kinky Women:

mrzeitgeist:

This was written in response to a FetLife post. The poster was wondering why no one was responding to his profile or his entreaties to be invited to parties.

You want to meet a girl that you can explore your kinky side with. That’s wonderful.

Let me ask you something:

Do you have a…

As of right now, I'm not aware of those responses, but knowing some of the people I do, I don't doubt that those sorts of things were said, so I do apologize for that. As for the frustration it's not really that bad, nor really that much aimed at you as I know there's plenty more people in the world with the same name, lol. I hope you have a nice day today~

Sat, 27 Nov 2010 19:29:04 -0500

Thank you, you too.

I feel like what you posted was a bit overly-hostile towards me. My original comment about it all was that I was amused; I didn't know if you knew about me until then, and I was just making a lighthearted statement about how I couldn't use my name. I never said it was unfair, and I've never asked nor told you to stop using the name so I'd appreciate if you weren't putting words in my mouth, please? And finally, my name actually is Lothie. =/

Also, incase you were wondering, I've changed this username temporarily because I was being stalked and harassed by someone, so I had to change things around to get them off my back.

Tue, 23 Nov 2010 17:34:38 -0500

I probably would have taken it less seriously if I hadn’t seen one or more responses indicating that you should kill me. It’s hard for me to have a sense of humor about that, as an abuse survivor, but I s’pose I should. :-/

At any rate, I’m sorry for my reaction and also, sorry for your frustration that I’ve grabbed the name pretty much everywhere…it’s not my birth name but it IS what everyone calls me.

i've had it for a while

Mon, 11 Oct 2010 13:57:43 -0400

So I noticed that the girl at http://lothie.tumblr.com complained that she can’t use the name Lothie on a lot of sites because I grabbed it first, and it’s unfair that I’m using her name.

I’ve been using this name since before she was born; I started using it in 1981. So um…sorry, but I’ll keep on using it. I’ll probably still be using it after she reinvents herself as something else, since I’m sure it’s not the name on HER birth certificate either.

Sheesh.

Love is never in vain.

Fri, 08 Oct 2010 21:49:12 -0400

Love is never in vain.

if you're a woman you already know this

Tue, 07 Sep 2010 16:44:38 -0400

Vulnerability is our greatest strength. — Eve Ensler

love never ends

Tue, 24 Aug 2010 12:34:20 -0400

…bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things…

You never step in the same river twice.

Fri, 20 Aug 2010 00:59:56 -0400

You never step in the same river twice.

Focus and release…

Wed, 04 Aug 2010 10:24:00 -0400

Focus and release…

leithian

Tue, 03 Aug 2010 20:00:19 -0400

I know what it feels like to be denied like Peter denied Jesus. It hurts, a hell of a lot, to be cut dead like that, to be essentially told that something you’ve depended on, like the sun rising, was all in your mind…even if you’re pretty sure that that’s not really the case, and the denial is really a lie, a self denial as well as a denial of you. But it’s kind of funny to hope you’re being lied to, isn’t it?

It’s just another one of those things to let go of. Remember the love, but forget the hurt.

Release. Release. Release.

what would I not

Sat, 17 Jul 2010 10:21:50 -0400

what would I not

nothing earth shattering

Thu, 08 Jul 2010 15:17:55 -0400

Reality check! I think I need to figure this one out all by myself.

car tu viens a moi comme en un reve

Sat, 03 Jul 2010 19:18:45 -0400

It’s hard to let go of what people think of you. I try never to worry about that. Sometimes I succeed. I dance like nobody’s looking.

Photo

Sat, 03 Jul 2010 19:16:07 -0400

free free

Fri, 02 Jul 2010 13:41:14 -0400

Everyone says that you can’t love others if you don’t love yourself, and that’s true.

But part of loving yourself and others is practicing detachment. It’s not that you shouldn’t care. It’s that you should be serene in your caring. When you are with others, you should be able to be serenely and supremely You, because otherwise, it hurts everybody. If you don’t know how, you need to figure it out. Get to your place. Breathe. Be you…and then you can love.

car ce n'est pas la défaite lorsque tu libéres de ton amant

Thu, 01 Jul 2010 19:23:22 -0400

car ce n'est pas la défaite lorsque tu libéres de ton amant

yabination

Wed, 30 Jun 2010 15:35:17 -0400

Tumblr’s yet another bloggy thing, but I think I kind of like it. I’ll see how useful it ends up being for me. I’m sending this one to Twitter, which will feed to FB and Buzz, which is hilarious…